Etiquette
Client Verification Process:
A standard light screening is required for all new clients. We are about to embark on a journey that involves vulnerability on many levels. Please be honest and forthcoming during this process. The faster we move through the formalities, the sooner we can move on to having a beautiful time together. I trust that confidentiality is of the utmost importance to you, as it is to me. Make it easy for me to be a big "yes" to you.
Here is information I can use to verify you:
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Legal name, email address and phone number. I must have this information to ensure both of our safety. I will not disturb you with unsolicited texts or calls.
Plus:
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1-2 trustworthy provider references: Must include contact information and a link to their website or active ad. If you haven't seen a provider recently or ever, reach out to me and I'll work with you on this.
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Employment information: Your name and photo on a company website or well-established LinkedIn profile with 100+ connections. (Without a picture, I can't know that the person who walks through my door is the person I verified.)
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Google search: If I can find your name and photo via a Google search, this may show me that you are who you say you are.
Consideration Information:
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Please do not ask me to alter my consideration. My consideration reflects that I am a highly discerning and low volume provider, so that I can bring my best possible energy and health to my time with you. If my offerings are not within your budget, there are many other providers to choose from. Thank you!
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I accept consideration electronically and in cash.
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A 20% electronic deposit is required to hold our date. (See my refund policy further down this page.) CashApp is my preferred digital payment method (my handle is VVolta), but I can offer alternatives if needed, such as Zelle and PayPal.
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Consideration is for my time and professional guidance only. Anything that may, or may not, occur is between two consenting adults and for which there is no contract or compensation. It will be understood that anyone contacting me understands and accepts these terms.
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Consideration in cash must be made obvious and in plain sight in an open envelope or a book you enjoy, or in a gift bag if we are meeting in public, so that I may receive it immediately upon our meeting. If we are meeting in public, it still needs to be made available in the first few minutes.
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Thank you for paying for any expenses incurred over the course of our date, such as dinner or event tickets.
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Tips are never expected, but always appreciated.
Location & Availability:
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I am based in the San Francisco Bay Area. My regular incall is a gorgeous penthouse in a safe neighborhood of Oakland.
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With advanced planning, I can host at hotels in San Francisco, the Peninsula, and the Silicon Valley. A surcharge may apply for sessions away from my standard incall.
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For outcalls to your hotel or residence, please inquire. I may request a travel surcharge and/or extra verification information for my safety.
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Advanced booking of at least 24 hours—preferably 48 or more—is necessary, so that I have time to verify you and plan a wonderful experience for us.
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I will share exact location information with you once we have confirmed our date.
Cancellation & Refund Policy:
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I require at least 72 hours notice for cancellations.
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I will promptly refund your deposit electronically (unless we agree to put it towards our next meeting) if you cancel with advanced notice, as described above.
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I am not able to return your deposit if you cancel within 72 hours of our meeting. Please respect my time, as I do yours.
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If you are ill, however, please do cancel our meeting, even if it is within 72 hours! I am immuno-compromised, and must be careful about my health. I will be happy to apply your deposit to our next meeting. Please just ask.
Preparing for Our Meeting:
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I will be freshly showered for our date, and I ask that you do the same. You may shower at my incall location at the start of our date, if needed.
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Please refrain from wearing strong scents, such as cologne or scented deodorant.
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Clip your fingernails and file them if necessary, so you do not scratch my skin during our time together.
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Freshen your breath. I will have mouthwash available if needed.
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Please make sure you have the correct consideration prepared.
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I expect you to be a gentleman in all our interactions before, during, and after our time together. My boundaries must be respected at all times. If I feel disrespected or my well-being is endangered at any time, I will end our session immediately, without a refund.
We're a Good Fit If:
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You are a considerate, open-hearted, kind and polite individual or couple.
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You take the time to read my website.
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You are respectful and appreciative of the intensity and vulnerability of my offerings.
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You don't push my boundaries in any way, including attempting to negotiate my consideration.
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You are ready with your references and/or proof of identity for a light screening.
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You give me at least a couple of days' notice prior to your desired appointment time.
If this sounds like you, I look forward to connecting!