Why I will ask for your personal information:

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A standard light verification screening is required for all new clients. We are about to embark on a journey that involves vulnerability on many levels. I trust that confidentiality is of the utmost importance to you, as it is to me. Please be honest and forthcoming during this process. The faster we move through the formalities, the sooner we can move on to enjoying a beautiful time together. Thank you for making it easy to be a big "yes" to you.

 

Here is information I require to verify you:

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• Legal name, email address and phone number. I must have this info to ensure my safety, and I will keep it private and secure. If I can find your name and photo via web search, this may show me that you are who you say you are. If not, I may ask you to email me a photo of your ID via my encrypted email platform. Your information is safe with me, and I will not disturb you with unsolicited texts or calls.

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I also ask for either:

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1. Employment information: your name and photo on a company website or well-established LinkedIn profile with 100+ connections. (Without a picture, I can't know that the person who walks through my door is who I verified.) 

2. Or, 1-2 trustworthy provider references: you may share the contact information and links to websites/active ads for one or two (two is better) providers that you have seen in the past year. I will reach out to them directly and confirm that you are safe and enjoyable to be with.​​

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About my rates:

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• Please do not ask me to lower my rates. My rates protect my mental and physical health, allowing me to practice companionship sparingly in order to bring my best possible self to you. If my offerings are not within your budget, there are many other providers to choose from. 

• I accept payment electronically and in cash. 

• A 20% electronic deposit is required to hold our date. (See my refund policy further down this page.) CashApp is my preferred digital payment method. My handle there is VVolta, but I can offer alternatives if needed, such as Amazon gift card, Zelle and PayPal. A 5% processing fee is required for payments made through PayPal.

• My rates are for my time only. Anything that may, or may not, occur is between two consenting adults and for which there is no contract or compensation. Anyone contacting me understands and accepts these terms. 

• Payment must be received at the beginning of our meeting if in cash, or before our session starts if you are paying in full electronically. When paying in cash, please place it in plain sight in an open envelope, or in a gift bag or book you enjoy if we are meeting in public. 

• Thank you for covering any expenses incurred over the course of our date, such as dinner or event tickets.

• Tips are never expected, but always appreciated.​​​​​​

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Cancellation and refund policy:

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• Deposits are non-refundable unless I must cancel. If I need to cancel at the last minute due to illness or a family emergency, I will of course quickly and completely refund your deposit, or we may apply it to a future meeting.

• ​If you must cancel within 48 hours of our date, I ask for 50% of the booking fee. Within 24 hours, 100%. Half can be applied to a rescheduled date within 4 weeks. 

• If you are ill, please cancel our date to protect my health, even if it is short notice. I may choose to apply your deposit to our next meeting if circumstances allow.

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My location and availability:

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• I am based in the San Francisco Bay Area. My regular incall is in Emeryville/Oakland. I will share exact location information with you once we have confirmed our date.

• With advanced planning, I can host at hotels in San Francisco, the Peninsula/Silicon Valley or the North Bay. A travel surcharge applies for sessions away from my standard incall.

• For outcalls, please inquire. I will request a travel surcharge and/or extra verification information for my safety.

• I am not available for last-minute sessions. Advanced booking of at least 48 hours is necessary, so that I have time to verify you and plan a wonderful experience for us. 

• As a mom, I am usually not available for extended meetings or trips/travel. However, the winter, I am sometimes available to meet in the Tahoe area, as I go there frequently to ski.

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Boundaries:​​

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• I am committed to communicating my needs openly, and to saying no if I'm not enjoying myself. If I'm doing something with you, you know it's because I authentically want to.

• I am available sparingly: to the right kind of person who will light up my life. I am looking for mutual delight and enjoyment. Life's too short for less—especially as a devoted mom.

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How to prepare for a date with me:

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• I will be freshly showered, and I ask the same of you. You are welcome to shower at my incall at the start of our date. If you very recently showered, I will simply request that you wash your hands upon arrival.

• Please refrain from wearing strong scents, such as cologne or scented deodorant.

• Clip and file your fingernails, if necessary, so you do not scratch my delicate skin during our time together.

• Freshen your breath. I will have mouthwash available, if needed.

• Please make sure you have the correct payment prepared.

• I expect you to be respectful in all our interactions before, during, and after our time together. My boundaries must be respected at all times. If I feel that my well-being is endangered at any time, I will end our session immediately, without a refund.​​

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We're a good fit if:

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• You are a considerate, open-hearted, kind and polite individual or couple.

• You strongly value a highly discerning, low-volume provider.

• You embrace direct communication and are not intimidated by a mature, authentic woman.

• You take the time to read my website.

• You are respectful and appreciative of the intensity and vulnerability of my offerings.

• You don't push my boundaries in any way, including attempting to negotiate my rates.

• You are ready with your references and/or proof of identity for a light screening.

• You give me at least a couple of days' notice prior to your desired appointment time. 

• You enjoy giving pleasure as much as you enjoy getting it.

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If this sounds like you, I look forward to connecting!​​